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For those that don’t know – I have a child that has gone through depression, attempted suicide, told he was Bi-Polar – yadda yadda.  He leads a rough life at times.  But he’s not alone.  There are family members that each have to deal with their portion of his difficulties – mom, brothers, sister… etc.  We all deal with it in ways that are perfect for each of us.

We aren’t alone either, there are many many kids and their families that go through tough spots in life.  The families are sometimes the only ones standing strong for these kids because we know their true beauty and goodness inside.  Others, we find, steer clear because they don’t know how to deal with it.

I am asking that everyone Stumble this post if you do enjoy it – it is the wish of the teen that wrote this that others that may be in the same situation get some reality that they aren’t alone!

The following is a wonderful (tear jerker for me) poem that a teen wrote about his own experience as a brother (a twin brother no less) of a young man that is going through something very close to what my Stephen endures.

The following was given to many just to read, and those that could find themselves in his shoes have been praising the writing.  If you wouldn’t mind getting this out there for this young man (I will not name him unless his mother approves).  He wants others to know they aren’t alone!

It is okay to copy this to give to others, but you cannot copy and use it as your own.  Simply refer back to this post as the originator and that is fine.  Do not publish this unless you receive permission (just email me, I will ask the mother and the boy for you) through this site.

Again, please Stumble this or whatever way you can if you enjoy it.  This deserves to find it’s way to those that will benefit.

You Have To Be His Brother To Understand

What is it like to feel anger, broken-heartedness, and love at the same time?
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to watch your brother constantly hurt your mom,
And feel no remorse,
Because he hardly understands what he’s doing at the time?
what is it like to have to sit there, and remain silent,
All while you witness both people suffering?
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to see someone close to you,
Having already flown as high as they can get
Or so it seems?
Professionals say he can’t go any further,
But you pray to God he can.
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to witness someone you love,
Hurt to the point of tears because he feels he can’t make it?
What is it like to feel so much pain your body, heart, and mind,
Can hardly take it because you see your own brother’s life in shambles?
What is it like to hear people call your brother stupid?
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to be the privileged brother,
Yet you watch his life spiral downward,
All as teachers have given up on him,
Saying he won’t amount to anything in this world,
Because he has trouble reading?
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to have many true friends,
But your brother has next to none,
So he feels alone, even though you share yours,
But he knows that, he knows they’re yours,
It kills you because it’s killing him?
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to love your brother,
With such a sense of protecting him because of his delicacy,
That your friends call you wrong because, you get angered at the
Slightest thing anyone says about your brother, at the times when
People laugh at him, you want to punch people’s lights out?
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to see him depressed as he’s cycling through meds,
And most psychiatrists can’t help him because
they refuse to push aside their pride,
and so you watch him suffer because of their idiotic mistakes,
and it makes you so sad to see this situation unfold before your eyes?
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to have the desire to tell him he’ll be o.k.,
He’ll make it no matter what anyone tells him,
He’ll spread his wings and fly much higher than anyone ever anticipated,
He’s always loved and prayed for by many people,
Yet you can’t muster up the courage to tell him because you’re afraid he’ll reject this statement of love?
You have to be his brother to understand.

What is it like to feel anger, broken-heartedness, and love at the same time?
You have to be his brother to understand.

I’m not sure if I’m allowed to show a photo of this.. .but my hubby bought me the most AWESOME necklace!  I love it love it love it!  I’ve been heavy into my jewelry lately (not that I have alot).  I’m lovin’ dressing up for work.

Anyway, my dearest brought home a necklace and although I want to show you a photo – I don’t have permission to take a photo from her site and I don’t have good enough lighting to take a photo of it on my own.  So – here’s the link if you are interested in seeing this!

The Lillian Todaro Collections – http://www.lilliantodaro.com/fantasy/index.html

The one he bought me is “7007 Titania – Queen of the Fairies Necklace”.  Oh you’ve got to tell me what you think!  I love it!!  It’s heavy enough to let you know it’s there, but NOT too heavy.  The colors are beautiful and the beads make the colors jump out at you!  I’m thinking I need a few more!  Hint… hint honey!

Wicked By Gregory Maquire

I just got done reading “Wicked” by Gregory Maguire.

It’s the other side of the Wizard of Oz, the witches side.  What was the Wicked Witch of the West like?  Why was she so wicked anyway?  Better yet, was she?

This is a really good book and shows the OTHER side of the story.  I couldn’t put it down, seriously.

Not a paid ad btw, if you enjoy reading… this is a good one.  He’s written a few more books that I’d like to read as well.

They do have the musical coming to San Francisco, and my friend and I are drooling to go see it!  Neat site for the musical as well.  Wicked the Musical.

Some fun wallpaper, buddy icons and ringtones – ya gotta have em!  Here at Wicked the Musical – Downloads.

My personal favorite is Elphaba, the Wicked Witch of the West.  Glinda, well… read the book! 

There’s nothing like reading a good book.  I can’t tell you how many I read in a year, I believe I need another room in the house for a library… really. 

Love and Light,

Mon

Have you ever looked at a photo, graphic, image and wish you could get the color information so you could use it again?

For instance, the graphic (one of) header I have has a group of colors that I enjoy and I continue to use.  How do you find it?  There are numerous ways on the web to get this information, I’m going to give you just one at this moment.

Pic2Color is a site that is currently in Beta (that’s what it says) and gives you the ability to find colors that match/or closely match that of a photo, grouping of colors, or even a website (not available yet).

You can even get their widget and have it on your own site, which I’ve done under the “Web Stuff” page for you to use anytime you wish.

Here’s an example of what it can do.  I used one of my own banners and entered the URL into the widget.  When it translated the information into colors (HEX) I made a print screen of it.  This is only to show you what information it gives off of a URL to a photo.  You can test it yourself to see what it does.  You click on each color and it will translate the color into HEX for you.  The information (bubbles, printscreen etc.) was done by me for you to see what information I can get form it.  I use “SnagIt” screen capture software ~ and can’t live without it btw.

This is most certainly not a paid ad.  I’ve gotten emails regarding color schemes as of late, and I thought this might be useful to those playin’ around with designs.

Have fun!

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