My Father-In-Law – One Year Without Him
Harold Ford 2/19/1938 - 10/27/2007
I didn’t know what else to call this post, but I do have to say I don’t feel like we are completely without him you know? I always seem to catch a fragrance (smoke), hear a laugh, or something to remind us of him – he’s still very much around.
That’s my belief, take it or leave it – but it’s really a knowing. Harold loves us mucho. The old “coot” said he’d haunt us, so why not? 
Harold died of cancer on this day in 2007. So many of us where effected in so many ways, too many to imagine.
My husband – oh to lose your father, I cannot begin to imagine.
My kids, who only where around him for a few years – were very effected and it broke my heart watching them grieve.
His grandchildren – what can you say to that grief?
Friends, Family – all of us where touched in so many different ways by him.
He’s wasn’t some sweet little old guy though. Nope. Well, not on the outside… he was a burly kinda rough Navy kinda guy. He’s tell you to “kiss off” quite quickly and the next breath laugh his butt off if you tripped and fell. You just had to shake your head and laugh at him. He always lived life being truthful to who he was and not worrying what others thought.
I miss you Harold, and as of today… one year after you ditched your 3 dimensional body for a beautiful light spirity one – I have not smoked for over 10 days. Ha!
I miss you miss you miss you.
So does your son, in such a huge way……
Love and Light,
Your “Honorary Daughter”
For You Harold – A Soft Goodbye
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That’s a beautiful post, Z. I’m sorry for your family’s loss…I’m sure Harold is watching over you. And he’d be so proud of you for over 10 days smoke-free! You are doing the best thing you could possibly do for yourself, your family, and Harold. Way to go! I know this is a tough day for you, but you will get through it. Stay strong!!
Your fellow forum friend,
Nicole
I really understand this. I lost my Mom to cancer the 9th of November 2007, which is almost the same period. It was really hard for us and a loss that we will never quite be finished with. I know this had a great impact on you since I have followed along with your struggle to quit smoking. Keep up the good work and happy hauntings. I am sure Harold loved you, too!!
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I think that the people who you love stay with you, even after their bodies are gone… That was a beautiful posy to Harold, and I know he appreciates it
and you go girl on the not smoking !!!!!!!
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Beautiful post Monica, wishing you comfort on this day *hug!*
I just stumbled across your blog. I hope you don’t mind me visiting and leaving a comment.
I am really sorry about your father in law. I bet he is proud of you. Keep his memory strong and you’ll never be alone on your quest.
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Awh Mon, that’s a beautiful tribute. And its exactly the kind of thing that I gave you the latest award… I miss seeing you around girl.
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We are never without the ones we have loved and been loved by. They are there in our hearts and minds if not in spirit. It can be hard on us to be without them before our eyes. But always know that love lives on.
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@Nicole: Oh honey thank you so much for commenting! I fell off the smokin’ wagon and have been a bit ashamed to come back.
I’ll be there again… I’m expecting a star from you quick!
{{{{{{{{{{ Nicole }}}}}}}}
I just loves ya!
@DianeCA: Thanks Diane. Thank you so much. I went back to smoking yesterday. That’s a post in itself, but it’s not for long.
As for your momma… wow, you are right… it’s within the same time period and coming up fast. I’m sorry for your loss and I’m going to send some beautiful light your way for the 9th okay?
{{{{{{{ Diane }}}}}}}}
@Loving Annie: Annie! Hiya honey… I went back to smoking last night. I’m not fretting, I’ll get this out of my system yet. I just get to learn a different way.
Thank you for the comment on Harold. I do believe they stay with us… in fact, I know they do.
{{{{{{{ hugs }}}}}
@Tess: Thank you SO much for the hug! Oh I needed that.
@Stephanie: I went to your blog and loved it! THank you so much for visiting me! Keep coming please. {{{{{{{{{ hugs }}}}}}}}
@fragileheart: I miss you too sweetie. I’ll be here more, I was going through some um… *poop* but hey, don’t we all?
It’s good to be alive to have those days. 
{{{{{{{{{{{ hugs }}}}}}}}}} you are the bestest!
@BadEvan: Evan! Thank you thank you thank you! And isn’t that true?! We love em so much – they are stuck with us.